[Breast Milk] Pumping and Traveling

For those of you who aren't nursing moms, you can ignore this post. But when I was preparing to return to work, it was hard to find information about traveling with breast milk and pumping along the way. Yes, I said the word BREAST. I put together the email below for my mom's group and thought I'd post it here so internet searchers can find information in one place.

My first four days back at work in April were a trip to Austin, TX, and honestly, it was kind of fun (see photo to right). There were some tears the night before but once I got on my way, it was fine. Traveling sans baby and pumping the whole time was interesting, especially because I didn't have a direct flight and Texas is far from Boston. 

Some tips for those of you who will have to pump and travel:

- You can take as much liquid through TSA checkpoints as you like (breastmilk or water for formula).

- When traveling with liquids, there are two options for security - you can put the liquids through the x-ray machine and have them quickly inspected by hand, or you can opt out of the x-ray machine and have them put all of the milk/water into a different machine that somehow checks it for bad things but without x-rays. You will then also have to undergo a manual body check. The second option involves EACH bag of milk being put into the machine by itself, so if you're an over-producer who was away for four days, it is going to take awhile. My TSA guy realized that he forgot to give me one of the bags back and chased me down to ensure I got it back; who says the TSA isn't friendly? (Next time I may just x-ray the milk, and by next time I mean today because I'm going to NYC for a few days and of course the train schedule didn't work out.)

- Pumping in the airport was WAY easier than I expected. Just find the "family" restrooms. Some airports have specific lactation rooms but I didn't seek them out. All of the family restrooms I found had a plug, and a few had a chair, or I just sat on the floor or on the counter. The only issue is if someone is waiting to use the restroom and knocks. And then knocks again. And again. And then gives you a dirty look when you leave as a single lady until you tell her that you were pumping milk for your infant, and oh by the way, there's not even a changing table in there for her toddler so she might as well have changed him in the main restroom. You could bring some post-it notes to put a quick note outside so no one gets frustrated.
Pumping on the Acela train was also fine. I just sat on the toilet. Ok fine, EW, but not so bad. There was a plug.

- Keeping the milk cold is also not too hard. For short trips, my friend recommended this small cooler. For anything over a day, I bring a small foldable cooler and a few blue ices, and put them in the micro-fridge freezer at the hotel. On the way home, I also got ice from the ice machine and put it in Ziploc bags that I brought; this helped on the 13 hour trip home. I did not freeze the milk in the hotel because I didn't want it to defrost on the way home; you are not supposed to re-freeze milk. I froze it when I got home. Make sure you call the hotel ahead of time to ensure they have mini-fridges in all of the rooms.

- Storing milk: The bags take up the least amount of room and freeze flat. I used the Honeysuckle Milk Storage bags (Update: I don't recommend these any longer; too many have broken!) and the Target brand milk storage bags. The Target bags are stiffer plastic; both have double ziplocs. Out of the ~30 bags I had, one Target and one honeysuckle bag leaked on the way home because I didn't ensure the double-ziplocs were zipped all the way. Whoops. 
Now I use the Target ones or the Lasinoh ones. WAY too many Honeysuckles have broken. Plus I just realized they have a boob on the bag. Subtle, but still. And I don't use bottles because A. They take up too much room, and B. They are more expensive.
Also, consolidate your individual bags of milk into larger ziploc bags. This will make the TSA-screening process easier and contain any leaks.

- Cleaning the pumping stuff - I just rinsed out the flanges and containers, and/or used these Munchkin Pacifier Wipes, which are much cheaper than the advertised "pump wipes". I brought some dish soap in a small tupperware to wash the pump stuff once I got in the hotel, which would have been great if the tupperware hadn't opened all over the suitcase. At least it was easy to clean up the leaked milk when I got home; there was soap already there! (When I pump at work, I just put the flanges and bottles in a ziploc and in the fridge between pumping sessions and wash it all when I get home.)

- Pumping mechanics: I didn't figure out how to use the hands-free bra before I went, which was my biggest mistake. That thing is awesome. I thought it wouldn't fit right, but it doesn't have to fit like a regular bra. I should have been using that from the first time I pumped.

- Carry-on luggage restrictions don't count for a breast pump, which is considered a medical device. At least it shouldn't - I only had two carry-ons last time so I didn't get challenged. This time I had three and it was mostly fine - I just ignored the security person and didn't have issues.. I put everything (cooler, pump, bra, etc) in a small carry-on suitcase that wheeled around, which was awesome until the telescoping handle wouldn't extend, so I had to carry it around old-school by the handle. Brilliant tip: Make sure your suitcase is working appropriately before leaving the state. :-)

- Before leaving, make sure your baby will drink milk that has been frozen! Some moms have extra enzymes in their milk that makes it taste/smell sour. Some babies don't mind; others do. To prevent it from happening, you have to scald the milk before freezing it. My unfrozen milk was fine; he'll drink it as long as it is slightly warmed, so I don't have to scald the milk before freezing.

- Update - Pumping at your destination: Don't forget to figure out where to pump during your meeting! Typically I reach out to someone I know really well who works at that location, someone who has recently been or is pregnant, or ask to talk with an office/facilities manager. These people will usually go out of their way to help you because it's their job, or because they can empathize. I typically pumped in a "New Mom's Room" or went back to my hotel room if in the same building. I also put calendar reminders on for when I should go pump, and it wasn't always during breaks because a lot of good stuff happens during unstructured meeting time... 

My list of things to bring related to pumping is as follows:

- Hands-free bra

- Honeysuckle Milk Storage bags Some kind of milk storage bags

- Small cooler for keeping the in-transit milk cold

- Folding soft cooler for the return trip (something like this, though mine is much less high quality)

- Two additional blue ices

- 4 8 sliding gallon Ziploc bags to hold the clean/dirty pump flanges and ice

- Munchkin Pacifier Wipes

- Receiving blanket or muslin to protect clothes, wipe up messes, sit on the floor with, etc

- Small tupperware with dish soap, but enclosed in a small Ziploc; or a small bottle of dish soap

- Battery pack and extra batteries in case I can't find a plug (I have a Hygeia EnJoye pump w/out Care and can use this Medela battery pack; you just have to know what voltage your pump takes)

- Breast pump and wall plug

- Bag or rolling suitcase to hold it all

Things you may want to consider:

- Extra shirt in case of spills or leaks

- Nursing pads (which I find I don't need unless I miss a pumping session by many hours)
- Nursing cover in case you have to pump somewhere public (don't get me started on LGA)

I was pretty anxious about pumping and traveling but it worked out fine. When I returned home, Max took to nursing again easy as pie (which I was also anxious about). My husband did great with him for the four days, but he's also the primary caregiver even when I'm not traveling so he's familiar with Max's routines. 

Good luck traveling and pumping breast milk! It just takes a little extra time, but is totally worth it. :-)

Bonus photo of Max and me on Mother's day:

Working from Home: Pros & Cons

Pros of working from home:

• No train ride
• Doing laundry at lunch
• Drinking our diet root beer supply
• Cuddling with Mustard while on conference calls
• Getting marriage advice from the mail woman

Cons of working from home:

• Missing the friendly faces of co-workers
• Not getting my daily 80 minutes of reading time on the commute
• Mustard causing my hot tea to spill all over my computer keyboard
• Mustard barking at the mail woman
• Mustard barking at the UPS delivery person
• Mustard thinking I'm home to play with him

Really, all things considered, I've got it pretty good either way.

Hey! Look! This ball is so fun! Mom! Look! I even throw it for myself! But it would be more fun if you played with me.

Fine. I'll do some more surgery on my rubber chicken. His last wing is annoying me.

The Big Apple

The real Casey Williams, i.e. Me, was in New York City this week, living it up at a trade show. Yee-haw!

Ok it wasn't Yee-haw at all, I'm just listening to T play Pump Action Buck Hunter, and they (the guy on the game) talk with a Southern accent because all hunters are Southern. There's also this whipping sound at the end of a round. I'm not exactly sure why.

I digress. The conference was, however, informative and I learned a lot. And ate much salty foods. I only wish I had time to go shopping! Or go to the Lion King. I have always wanted to see that show. I might be one of those people in the audience who sings along (badly) though.

Now to digest everything I heard.
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Sweetest Thing in the World

An empty inbox on a Friday night.
Sure, it's only for the next 10 minutes. But I love it so much.
EMPTY EMAIL INBOX!

Quick I have to leave before more comes in!
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Prehistoric Fun!

My favorite email that I sent at work this week (so far):

Hi Guys,
[Before our marketing sales pitch,] I would like to request that we visit the Dinosaur Park.

I'm hoping to see evidence of Unicorns.


Sincerely,

Casey “I love prehistoric creatures” Williams
Client Services Manager
Boston, MA


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Summer Jobs

My mother wrote a blog entry today about getting your teenager to work during the summer. Of course she used an anecdote from my own childhood, when I was the first from our family with four kids to get a job for the summer. Essentially it was because she demanded it. What she may not have known is that I did want a job (money = freedom) - I just had no idea how to go about doing it!

Yes, there was babysitting, but I didn't have any nanny connections. Plus, I didn't relish the thought of watching kids all day.

Instead, with the push from my mother (and a ride), I applied at McDonald's (where I forgot to fill in my DOB), Fashion Bug, Walgreen's (I think?), and Boston Market. At Boston Market, I bumped into a girl I knew from marching band who worked there 'cause her older brother got a job there, and the rest, as they say, is history.

I went on to spend over five years working there on and off, during school when I was in high school, summers, sometimes just for a winter break home from college. My arms and fingers still bear scars from the heat lamps and very sharp knives. My brain still associates the chicken smell with high school and hormones.

Things I learned:

1. If you ride your bike to and from Boston Market (2 miles each way) at least 4 times a week, you will lose weight even if you're eating Boston Chicken twice a day.

2. You really have to scrub a floor if you want to get rid of a bug infestation.

3. A 'crew' of workers is brought together by its leaders. Our favorite managers (and the ones we worked hardest for) were the ones who worked hard themselves, and were funny and honest.

4. People of very different economic and family backgrounds can work together well, and even become friends. I had friends from the 'Tech (Nashoba Tech), from my own high school but different crowds than my usual marching band comrades, single moms, and many, many Brazilian immigrants.

5. Having a paycheck of your own is awesome.

6. It's way easier to work with your siblings than pretty much anyone else. This is only true when the work occurs outside of the household and you're getting paid and directed by someone who is not your parents.

Where did you spend your high school summers?
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Love in the Time of Window Washing

Yesterday, I rummaged around my desk looking for my phone to photograph "a day in the life of a sky-scraper cubicle dweller". I found the phone, but more impressively, found this hidden message below my wrist rest (which I use as a left-elbow rest):

Never fear, when I was rummaging I did in fact wipe off some of the dirt you see in this photo. It's probably mostly skin cells. And crumbs from lunch.

But more perplexing: Who wrote the message? WHO LOVES ME? Really, WHO LOVES ME AND WROTE IT HERE ON MY WRIST-REST? I've had this thing since college, so the possible scribblers are endless. Female friend? Male? Canine?

Either way, when I need a pick me up, you know where I'm going. The wrist-rest-cum-elbow-rest. Someone out there loves me.

And yes, I did manage to photograph the more interesting part of "a day in the life of a sky-scraper cubicle dweller": The window washer!

Considering the tower has over 60 stories, the fact that he's almost on 23 must feel pretty good. Please note the suds. And the reflection of my desk, where if you look closely enough you can see the sock monkeys sitting on a shelf.

The entire time, no eye contact. He must either ignore all the crazies inside, or not be able to see through the reflection. I admire his mustache. It is a bold fashion statement.

That, my friends, is what it's like to work in the Hancock tower. Really, what else do you need to know?

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Breast Cancer Awareness

Take a look at these somewhat controversial ads from Target promoting breast cancer awareness.. They're pretty much blatantly acknowledging many men's tendency to look a woman's chest, and using it to their advantage - to promote their Breast Cancer Awareness tshirt.

Interesting methods.
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Just call me "Manager"

Great news on the career front - I'm now one of the Client Services Managers here at work! Very exciting to take on a new challenge, even if it means doing two jobs for awhile until all the transitions are done. Expect reduced posts here and at the Volunteer Boston blog until I get myself sorted out. Between being T's nurse, work, OYFP, and hockey, I'm a busy doobie.

Random Excel Tip

Ok, so I use Excel a LOT for my job. Nothing fancy, but beyond basics. I just figured out how to copy and paste values from a filtered list, without having to individually highlight each filtered row. Previously if I didn't highlight each filtered row, Excel would paste all values in the list, even those that didn't meet my filtered value.

example: here is my list.
item color
banana yellow
dog brown
bowl yellow
ball red
grass green
bucket yellow
horse brown

I want to know just which items are yellow, so I go to the Data menu and filter the list. I choose yellow in the color column as my filter. the problem is when I highlight the data, copy, and paste it, the ENTIRE list is copied, not just the banana, bowl, and bucket rows.

to get around this:
highlight the data
hit control g
choose "special" and then "visible cells"
this highlights (or selects) only the visible cells
then you are free to copy and paste just those rows that you have filtered for!

BRILLIANT!!!!!!

ctrl G > visible cells only (highlights only visible cells) > ctrl c will only copy visible cells